It would be wonderful if we could simply walk up to a cosmetic counter and purchase a bottle of self-confidence the way we can buy “revitalizing” or “lifting” creams for our faces. Unfortunately this spiritual elixir, like an expensive perfume, is different on every woman because of individual chemistry.
When I was younger, my self-confidence potion was heavily scented with attitude, optimism and faith; experience, knowledge, and wisdom had to come later. But even today, every new opportunity or challenge requires that I prepare a special batch of moxie for myself. I do this by becoming as thoroughly prepared as possible and by looking the part – wearing an outfit, for example, that exudes self-confidence. Next I say my prayers and ask for the Power to be switched on. Then “it’s showtime.” I act as if I’m self-confident and the world takes me as such.



March 8th, 2010
Maria Helm
More and more small business owners are finding ways to cut costs. However, there are areas in your business that you can’t afford not to spend money on such as Marketing. There are ways to get the word out about your business that won’t cost you an arm and a leg. If you have a tiny marketing budget, you can try the following examples. I’m pretty sure there are other entrepreneurs that may find a few marketing ideas to try as well.
. . . is NOW. Yes, there is always a better way. So many times we are afraid to step out and try something new, or become fearful of some change that is happening, and even spend many hours worrying about circumstances that never come to pass. How can we get the most out of our lives (and our jobs, since much of our time is spent at our places of work?)
Shameless procrastination. Reluctantly saying yes. Complaining relentlessly. Feeling like a martyr. You go through all that, when a two-letter word could have set you free from obligation: “No.” Darn it, I can’t. Sorry, no. Love to, but no, can’t do it this time. That’s what your inner bobblehead was screaming as your mouth said, “Yes, I’d love to host this year’s Superbowl party.”
I think it’s safe to say that we all strive to live a better life. We try to manage our personal and professional life and somehow do our best to create some balance. We love to take care of our loved ones, our customers, our bosses. But one thing that we certainly neglect from time to time is to take care of ourselves. Health, after all, is something that we cannot take for granted. Well, not for long. Without our health, we definitely, lose the ability to take care of all those things that we think are all so important. Remember that health is wealth.


