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Starting a successful conversation is an art that is not hard to learn. Like most things in life conversations usually follow a pattern or formula. These tips for making conversation with strangers were meant for you and everyone that wants a little help to get the ball rolling:

1.  Smile.  Everyone is more engaging when they appear friendly and open.

2.  Make eye contact.

3.  Introduce yourself.  A conversation is more likely to start and continue when names are exchanged.

4.  Pick a relevant topic.  It might sound cliche, but it’s always good to bring up the weather.

5.  Share some details.  Tell the other person a little about yourself.

6.  Ask specific questions.  Inquire about the other person’s family, job or hobbies.

7.  Educate yourself.  Stay informed about current events or happenings within your industry so you can offer interesting insight and speak confidently on a subject.

8.  Listen closely to what the othe rperson is saying and file away important tidbits for later.

9.  Laugh.  Conversations are always easier when people are at ease.

10.  Be genuine. No one likes to have a conversation with someone who comes off as fake or distracted.

Not all conversations with strangers will be memorable or even fun. There will be some that are dull, boring or like pulling teeth. But for the most part people who find themselves stuck with you in a one on one conversation situation will be as anxious as you are to make it work. So consider these few tips for making conversation with strangers – and then hope that the stranger has collected a few conversation tips along the way too. Perhaps that’s something you two could talk about!