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Do What You Love and the Money Will Follow – Or So They Say

“Do what you love and the money will follow.” ~ Marsha Sinetar

I love the optimism of this quotation, and for the most part, I believe it’s true.  If you’ve not read Marsha Sinetar’s book (by the same title), she can make a believer out of you as well.  Her book is a practical and inspirational primer on getting your passion to pay off.

Marsha Sinetar is not the first to advise us along these lines.  One of Buddha’s main steps for achieving enlightenment, for example, is discovering your right livelihood.  And at the other end of the spectrum, John D. Rockefeller believed that the power to make money was a gift from God, which is simply another way of saying, “Do what you love and the money will follow.”

But still we ask:  Does it really?

Yes. But not the way you’re used to getting it.  First, unless you win the lottery, the money usually doesn’t come all at once, especially in the beginning.  Second, the money will come from unexpected sources.  But it will come and here’s why.  When you start following your true path and passion, you’re finally using your talents and skills that are more natural to you.  Imagine doing something that is forced and unenjoyable.  Do you think you’ll put your best efforts into it?  Trust me, doing what you love does eventually lead to the ATM.  But you might have a few detours before you get there.

Valuable Gifts for New Entrepreneurs, Part 2

I posted Valuable Gifts For New Entrepreneurs just before the holidays last year.  Well, I’m posting a Part 2, just in case you’re already thinking of starting your holiday list early.   I know, we’re in the middle of summer and Christmas is not exactly what we think of especially if it’s 103 degrees outside.  But, hey, you don’t have to wait for the holidays to give someone special who just started his/her small biz.  Here are more ideas on what to give a new entrepreneur:

1. Pocket HD Camcorder

Pocket HD, USB-enabled video cameras are at the top of a lot of people’s lists. Some uses for them are video blogging, recording presentations or simply adding some personality to your website by addressing things on camera rather than text. Whatever it’s for, no entrepreneur should be without one to capture all of the fun, excitement and ideas that happen daily. There are a bunch of options these days.  Flip Video basically invented the under $200 video camera, and of the five versions now offered, the original Flip Ultra (affiliate link) is still my favorite, thanks to its low price, intuitive controls, and easy uploading.

2. Air Card

Not a must but still a fun gift. They work great and it’s not something a bootstrapping entrepreneur will probably invest in on their own so that makes it a really cool gift.

Discovering What You’d Like to Do If you Ever Had the Time

Spending regular time alone just to collect your thoughts seems like indulgence.  Spending time alone to nurture your vision, to express yourself creatively, to enjoy a personal pursuit that brings  you contentment and pleasure will seem — well , impossible.  Incredulous.  Impractical.  Inconceivable.  Out of the question.

“Right.  In another life,” is the usual response, along with the audible sighs and the rolling of eyes when I raise the topic with a group of women I occasionally have lunch with.  Then wistful looks appear.  “You mean to have fun?” the women want to know.

“Yes.  Have fun.”

“You mean, by myself.”

“Yes, by yourself.  Fun.  What would you like to do if you ever had the time?”

“Fun?”

Respond Rather Than React

It’s amazing how quickly a positive attitude can be shut down by a few bad experiences and negative thoughts, isn’t it?  That’s why it’s so important to monitor your attitude and respond rather than react.

When you respond, you make a positive and constructive mental adjustment.  When you react, it’s purely emotional and rarely does anything to improve the situation; often it makes it worse.

Negative thoughts are going to creep into your mind.  The key is to be prepared with a game plan that responds offensively and defensively rather than one that merely reacts.  Choosing to respond instead of reacting helps you stay in control of your attitude and your life.  It’s the difference between having an attitude that sends you flying out the door eager and excited each morning and having an attitude that keeps you under the covers hitting the snooze alarm.

A few key thoughts:

  • Watch out for negative inputs.  The loudest voice you hear is your own.

Self-Confidence Can’t Be Bought, But Can Be Borrowed

self-confidenceIt would be wonderful if we could simply walk up to a cosmetic counter and purchase a bottle of self-confidence the way we can buy “revitalizing” or “lifting” creams for our faces.  Unfortunately this spiritual elixir, like an expensive perfume, is different on every woman because of individual chemistry.

When I was younger, my self-confidence potion was heavily scented with attitude, optimism and faith; experience, knowledge, and wisdom had to come later.  But even today, every new opportunity or challenge requires that I prepare a special batch of moxie for myself.  I do this by becoming as thoroughly prepared as possible and by looking the part – wearing an outfit, for example, that exudes self-confidence.  Next I say my prayers and ask for the Power to be switched on.  Then “it’s showtime.”  I act as if I’m self-confident and the world takes me as such.

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