Posts Tagged ‘Success’

Think Big, Start Small

We have learned to dream big and to go for our dreams.  These are important messages for a successful venture, but sometimes we get carried away and don’t give our dreams time to firmly take root.

I remember a colleague of mine dreamed of launching an annual online marketing conference.  He had a great concept and access to both the funds and the people to carry it out.  He planned a three-day event with speakers, workshops, and an exhibit hall.  Vendors signed up, facilities for a large crowd were committed.  Ads and articles appeared in the local paper and online.  Success seemed imminent.

But throughout the process several of his friends and colleagues (me included) had been skeptical.  We urged him to start smaller – maybe an afternoon event, to test the drawing power of his idea.

Our colleague remained undeterred.  He saw these naysayers as negative thinkers, small-minded folks who couldn’t grasp the potential of what was possible.

The day of the event arrived and everything was fabulous – except the attendance.  Those who came found it valuable, but the turnout was disappointing.  Vendors were upset, and the affiliating organizations were embarrassed.

Had he started small, none of this would have happened.  If he had compacted this event into one afternoon, the small crowd would have seemed large and the event could easily have led to a daylong event the following year with plenty of time for word of mouth and the promise of more to come to buikld on.  Failing so big damaged his efforts to do this again.

Lesson learned:  dream big, but start small.  Let’s go for our dreams, but let’s allow them time to grow into full blown success we envision.

Photo Credit:  sirwiseowl

Ithaka by Constantine Cavafy

I first heard of the poem Ithaka by the Greek poet C. P. Cavafy at the funeral of Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis.  I was moved when I heard it not only because it was used as an elegy, but how meaningful it is to our modern lives.

When someone reads the Odyssey he/she should pay close attention to the symbolic meaning of this poem.  The Odyssey has a much deeper meaning than what it seems to someone that reads it for the first time.  It is not just a story about a fantastic voyage and a guy overcoming some imaginary difficulties and going back home.  In the Greek view it is an inner-self quest for rediscovering who you really are; at the same time it is a celebration of the human nature and the capability of achieving your goals, even if it means that you have to go through the most difficult and unexpected obstacles to reach those goals.

 

As you set out for Ithaka
hope the voyage is a long one,
full of adventure, full of discovery.
Laistrygonians and Cyclops,
angry Poseidon – don’t be afraid of them:
you’ll never find things like that on your way
as long as you keep your thoughts raised high,
as long as a rare excitement
stirs your spirit and your body.
Laistrygonians and Cyclops,
wild Poseidon – you won’t encounter them
unless you bring them along inside your soul,
unless your soul sets them up in front of you.

Giving Yourself Credit

One of the reasons we often don’t feel successful is we never give ourselves credit.  We tend to downplay our achievement, especially in front of our family and friends.  Before we know it, we’re practically denying we ever attained anything.  But many successful people do revel in their achievements, covering the walls of their offices and homes with their photographs, and magazine covers, displaying awards on their mantels.  They’ve succeeded, and not only does the world applaud them, they congratulate themselves.

I experienced an awakening one day when I was rewriting my resume for a new venture.  As I listed my accomplishments, I wondered “Who is this woman?  Do I know her?  Do I have multiple personalities?” For if detectives arrived at my door to search for her, they wouldn’t have found a shred of physical evidence.  So I started searching for clues, rescuing proof that mountains had been climbed from cardboard boxes buried somewhere in the garage.  I took some of my favorite memorabilia – my college graduation picture, college diploma, professional certifications – to the framers.  When I hung them up in our living room, I stood back and looked at them the way a stranger might.  Wow! It was astounding, exhilarating, stupefying.  Then I began to congratulate myself out loud for jobs well done.  Now I seize moments of achievement by making them concrete.  Having the physical evidence of accomplishment has gone a long way toward making me feel successful.

Although it may crown you Queen for a Day (or King), the world cannot confer the recognition that will make you feel fulfilled.  Only you can.  So chill a bottle of champagne and toast yourself upon the completion of a creative project, personal accomplishment, professional achievement.  Can we really afford to wait for the world’s approval?  “I am doomed to an eternity of compulsive work,” Bette Davis confessed in her memoir, The Lonely Life.  “No set goal achieved satisfies.  Success only breeds a new goal.  The golden apple devoured has seeds.  It is endless.”

Photo Credit:  Bruce Berrien CC

The 5 Goals of a Project Manager

As a Project Manager, you need to manage people, money, suppliers, equipment—the list is never ending. The trick is to be focused. Set yourself 5 personal goals to achieve. If you can meet these simple goals for each project, then you will achieve total success. So read on, to learn…

The 5 Goals of a Project Manager

These goals are generic to all industries and all types of projects. Regardless of your level of experience in project management, set these 5 goals for every project you manage.

Goal 1: To finish on time

This is the oldest but trickiest goal in the book. It’s the most difficult because the requirements often change during the project and the schedule was probably optimistic in the first place.

To succeed, you need to manage your scope very carefully. Implement a change control process so that any changes to the scope are properly managed.

Always keep your plan up to date, recording actual vs. planned progress. Identify any deviations from plan and fix them quickly.

Goal 2: To finish under budget

To make sure that your project costs don’t spiral, you need to set a project budget at the start to compare against. Include in this budget, all of the types of project costs that will accrue, whether they are to do with people, equipment, suppliers or materials. Then work out how much each task in your plan is going to cost to complete and track any deviations from this plan.

Are You Afraid of Success?

AfraidNo one wants to fail.  Fear of failure is common, even immobilizing people, hindering them from pursuing or achieving their goals.  But for some, success is an even greater source of fear, also resulting in inaction.

It’s rare that a goal is all roses. Success requires change, and change has both positive and negative consequences. Often while people claim to want to succeed at something, the reality is that the negatives outweigh the positives for them.  When that happens, we abandon the idea altogether.

“A fear of success is an expression of inadequacy in believing we don’t deserve to achieve, combined with emotions of guilt when we do better than expected,”  says Denis Waitley, speaker, author, and productivity coach.

When you don’t really believe in the validity of your dreams and you aren’t prepared for achievement, you will fall short again and again, says Waitley.  “I call this the curse of permanent potential.”

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